Recently diagnosed and new here

Hi all, I'm 22 and have been struggling with urgency since I was 18. However, I was a bedwetter until I was 11 or 12 so perhaps I've always had my problem. Anywho, I went to the doctor, and my tests and ultrasound were fine. Which means my only option is to try medication, many of which have awful side effects. I'm looking into natural remedies, also wondering if I should do kegals- although my pelvic floor doesn't seem to be weak. This is just very frustrating because there doesn't seem to be a cure, nor will a doctor tell me why this is an issue.