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“Cuming” or…?

2 weeks ago

Hi. I apologize if this post is a tad uncomfortable but I have been having so severe anxiety in regards to my
OAB and being intimate with my girlfriend. I have had symptoms of OAB since I was a teenager but only recently started treatment. I’m on cranberry and pumpkin supplements as well as 10mg Solifenacin/VESICARE once daily in the morning. I have been with my girl for over a year now and sometimes when we are being intimate I’m “nearly there”…I panic because the sensation of the potential organism is very similar to what my bladder spasms feel like. I so just find myself focusing on not urinating and lose the edge and am left undone. This doesn’t always happen, but I was wondering if anyone has an advice or has had similar experiences?