Treatment

I am new to the group and feeling very frustrated with information I have given by my Urogynocologist. I’ve been seeing him about 10 months. Have tried mybetriq and most recently Trospium. I didn’t think Mybetriq was helping so he tried Trospium. It makes me drowsy and just feel terrible. He has suggested a sling but will only help stress incontinence. I am having both stress and urgency incontinence. I would love to know your experiences and treatments. He also mentioned Botox injections but isn’t a long time fix and too many side effects. Help!